Topic: A recent study says that we can correctly figure out what a stranger is
thinking 20% of the time…and what a romantic partner is thinking 35% of
the time. In your opinion, what does that indicate about how well we
know our mates?
Posted by: Aly Walansky
I guess this is a matter of half-full/half-empty...an interesting question would be what percentage of the time do we correctly understand ourselves and our own thoughts?
Not nearly all the time. In fact, maybe not even half. This makes the 35% sound pretty darn sweet.
In all seriousness, we can be in a relationship over a course of years, and often still feel not entirely connected - and it's sometimes, I think, based on my initial thought - that we really aren't comfortably connected to ourselves. How can we get anyone else?
I do call into question the guessing 20% of the time correctly about strangers. How can that *possibly* be true?
It can't. Are you going to cry about it?
Posted by: casualencounters.com/blog/ | August 20, 2009 at 05:30 PM
it is important that a person should know his/her self very well before got to know other people so that he/she knows exactly what he/she expected from the other person, you just can't keep on guessing.
Posted by: home improvement leads | August 27, 2012 at 11:51 PM